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Uramutse ukundanye n'umukobwa, mukamarana imyaka irenga itanu 5 mutegerje kuzabana,ariko akakwangira gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina n'umunsi n'umwe wabyifatamo ute?
Bamwe mu bakobwa mukundana nabo muri iki gihe ntibashobora gupfa kukwemerera ko mukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ngo baba bategereje ko muzabana da! Ikindi kandi ntibaba bashaka ko wamenya niba bakora ibyo bintu! Buri gihe iyo ubimubajije akubwira nabi cyane akakumvisha kandi ko niwongera kubimubaza muzahita mushwana burundu. Ibyo ni ukubeshya.
Ibyo nkubwira ni ibyo nzi neza kandi nakoreye ubushakashatasi.
Mu by'ukuri, nta muntu n'umwe udakora imibonano mpuzabitsina kuko twese tuva amaraso atukura, bityo ntihazagire ukubeshya. umukobwa murakundana bigacika akakwereka ko ari umwari utagira amakemwa, nyamara iyo mufiringa byose arabigukorera akanakwereka ko yageze kuri dogere ya nyuma yo kwishima, ko yafashwe burundu na caresses zawe. Byose murabikora, akagusoma ndetse akagusomagura akakwererka ko ntaho aguhishe .Nyamara iyo ibyo birangiye wowe wwabishatse aragukanira akakumutsa burundu pe! Wibaza se ko adafite umubiri nk'uwawe kuburyo yafatwa n'ubushagarira (gushyukwa) akananakurusha. Abenshi rero muri abo (si bose) iyo mutandukanye yiruka ajya kurebe uwo bamenyeranye kubikorana akamukemurira kakabazo, wowe ugapfira muri Nyagasani ngo umukunzi wawe aragukunda nti mwapfa ko yanze gukora icyaha!Ibyo ni ukwibeshya!
Ntabwo umuti aru uguhita wiruka nawe musore ngo ujye kureba indaya itakurushya ngo igukemurire ibibazo, ahubwo ugomba gutinyuka agahamagara umukunzi wawe mukabiganiraho nana kimwe umuhishe, ukamusaba ko agomba kureka gutuma utekereza abandi mukemurana ibibazo. Ibibazo by'urukundo agomba kubigira ibye ndetse akaba ari we muganga wabyo. Nubimwumvisha utamubeshye na gato na we azibuka ko ajya aguca inyuma kandi ko byose bishoboka akaba yakwisubiraho, ubutaha mukajya mukina urukundo mukarurangiza (mukagera ku ngingo).
Iby'isi niko bemera, niba hari ufite umukunzi akaba aketse ko babayeho gutyo, abyihanganire ntabifate nk'aho jye namenye uko babanye, ntabyiteho kuko navuze ngo si bose.
Iyo ufite ibitekerezo byo gutanga, ubyohereza kuri aderesi yavuzwe haruguru
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Uramutse ukundanye n'umukobwa, mukamarana imyaka irenga itanu 5 mutegerje kuzabana,ariko akakwangira gukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina n'umunsi n'umwe wabyifatamo ute?
Bamwe mu bakobwa mukundana nabo muri iki gihe ntibashobora gupfa kukwemerera ko mukorana imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ngo baba bategereje ko muzabana da! Ikindi kandi ntibaba bashaka ko wamenya niba bakora ibyo bintu! Buri gihe iyo ubimubajije akubwira nabi cyane akakumvisha kandi ko niwongera kubimubaza muzahita mushwana burundu. Ibyo ni ukubeshya.
Ibyo nkubwira ni ibyo nzi neza kandi nakoreye ubushakashatasi.
Mu by'ukuri, nta muntu n'umwe udakora imibonano mpuzabitsina kuko twese tuva amaraso atukura, bityo ntihazagire ukubeshya. umukobwa murakundana bigacika akakwereka ko ari umwari utagira amakemwa, nyamara iyo mufiringa byose arabigukorera akanakwereka ko yageze kuri dogere ya nyuma yo kwishima, ko yafashwe burundu na caresses zawe. Byose murabikora, akagusoma ndetse akagusomagura akakwererka ko ntaho aguhishe .Nyamara iyo ibyo birangiye wowe wwabishatse aragukanira akakumutsa burundu pe! Wibaza se ko adafite umubiri nk'uwawe kuburyo yafatwa n'ubushagarira (gushyukwa) akananakurusha. Abenshi rero muri abo (si bose) iyo mutandukanye yiruka ajya kurebe uwo bamenyeranye kubikorana akamukemurira kakabazo, wowe ugapfira muri Nyagasani ngo umukunzi wawe aragukunda nti mwapfa ko yanze gukora icyaha!Ibyo ni ukwibeshya!
Ntabwo umuti aru uguhita wiruka nawe musore ngo ujye kureba indaya itakurushya ngo igukemurire ibibazo, ahubwo ugomba gutinyuka agahamagara umukunzi wawe mukabiganiraho nana kimwe umuhishe, ukamusaba ko agomba kureka gutuma utekereza abandi mukemurana ibibazo. Ibibazo by'urukundo agomba kubigira ibye ndetse akaba ari we muganga wabyo. Nubimwumvisha utamubeshye na gato na we azibuka ko ajya aguca inyuma kandi ko byose bishoboka akaba yakwisubiraho, ubutaha mukajya mukina urukundo mukarurangiza (mukagera ku ngingo).
Iby'isi niko bemera, niba hari ufite umukunzi akaba aketse ko babayeho gutyo, abyihanganire ntabifate nk'aho jye namenye uko babanye, ntabyiteho kuko navuze ngo si bose.
Iyo ufite ibitekerezo byo gutanga, ubyohereza kuri aderesi yavuzwe haruguru
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